the first few days

It’s true. The first few days of a new baby’s life are truly the most magical. And I’m so grateful that this time around I am confident enough, aware enough, practiced enough (?) to really be able to enjoy them.
When Eleanor was born I was tired and a little overwhelmed (“what do I do now?!”) and way outside my element. Her first few days were somewhat of a blur, and while each day I enjoyed getting to know her I wasn’t aware of just how precious those early days are. This time around, with my little Oliver, I feel that I have the energy and ability to pay attention and really appreciate them for what they are- beautiful, fleeting moments of innocence.

For all new parents, or soon to be parents: (if you can manage) try to remember take a moment. Step back. And just watch your little one. Listen to their little noises; their squeaks and moans and cries. Watch them learn how to move their mouths, use their fingers. Watch them watch you- study you – get to know you. Smell them; their hair, their breath, their belly. They – your children and these moments – are amazing.

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5 thoughts on “the first few days

  1. Exactly how I felt with my son. With Ella I also had this thing in the back of my mind that I was supossed to be putting her down (awake so she would learn to sleep, and asleep so she would learn to be alone). But I didn’t want to so was constantly fighting this battle in my head.
    When Ethan came along I just held him. Awake, asleep, whatever. I just held him as much as I could.
    Enjoy 🙂

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  2. And don’t forget about their tiny fists wrapped around your finger. The moments are so precious and fleeting. Glad you are getting to enjoy them.

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  3. Congratulations, Kiyah and family! Oliver is precious, and you are so right that the first few days are pretty incredible. Of course they’ll all be a blur too, but I vividly remember smelling and nuzzling Lucy pretty much the whole first week. It really is like falling in love, only more!

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